By Raj Lal, LACHA, LPN, Administrator, Comfort and Love Senior Care Homes, Wichita, KS

Reviewed by Pamela Hamel, RN, Clinical Director, Comfort and Love Senior Care Homes

Can Someone with Dementia Live in a Residential Care Home?

A dementia diagnosis often leaves families wondering what kind of care will be needed next.

Your mother received her diagnosis this spring. On most days, she seems much the same as she did before. She still tells the same stories, still asks about your children by name, and still wants her coffee at the same time every morning. Recently, you have started noticing a few changes. She cannot always find the word she is looking for, and last month she called you twice in one afternoon to ask the same question.

You have started looking at senior living and memory care alternatives, and most of the options you find are large memory care communities. You may be asking a practical question: can someone with dementia live in a residential care home, or does a diagnosis rule that out?

A dementia diagnosis alone does not decide where a person should live. The deciding factors are how much supervision and hands-on help she needs each day, such as help with bathing, taking medications, or finding her way around, and whether a specific home can provide that help. This article covers when a residential care home works well, when it does not, and how Kansas families can tell the difference.

The Short Answer: Sometimes, Depending on the Level of Support Needed

Many people living with early-stage or moderate dementia live well in a residential care home, as long as their daily needs can be met with familiar routines, consistent caregivers, and regular supervision. Smaller settings often suit people who become confused or agitated in large groups. A move to specialized memory care may become necessary when wandering, attempts to leave the home, or behaviors such as aggression require more supervision or support than a particular home can safely provide.

What brings families to a smaller home

Families who ask about residential care homes have often noticed that a parent living with dementia:

• Becomes confused or agitated in busy environments and settles once things are quieter.
• Appears calmer and accepts help more easily when the same caregivers are present each day.
• Becomes confused when a familiar routine changes, such as a late meal or an unexpected outing.
• Needs help with tasks such as bathing, dressing, or medication management but does not require skilled nursing care every day.

When a family is deciding where a parent with dementia will live, day-to-day changes in mood, routine, and care needs usually say more about the right setting than the stage of the diagnosis.

7 signs a residential care home may be a good fit for someone with dementia

The more of these characteristics that apply to your loved one, the more likely a residential care home may be a good fit.

1. She benefits from familiar routines

A predictable daily schedule is one of the most useful things a care setting can offer a person living with dementia. When meals, bathing, and bedtime happen at the same times each day, she does not have to work out what comes next. A small home can usually keep the same schedule from one day to the next, while a large building with rotating shifts and busy group calendars may change more often. The Alzheimer’s Association describes the early stage of Alzheimer’s disease as a period in which many people keep driving, keep working, and stay socially active.1 Families often notice changes in routine tasks, such as preparing meals, managing medications, or keeping to a familiar schedule. In a residential care home, caregivers usually handle meals and medication help at the same times each day.

2. She prefers smaller environments

Some people are calmer in quiet environments, and dementia can make busy environments more confusing and upsetting. If your mother was never comfortable in crowds, a community of a hundred residents is unlikely to suit her now. In a residential care home with 12 or fewer residents, she sees the same few faces each day, walks a short distance from her room to the kitchen, and has fewer choices to sort through at mealtimes.

3. She becomes confused or agitated in large groups

Loud rooms, people moving around, and several conversations at once can be hard for a person living with dementia to follow, and that confusion can lead to agitation. The National Institute on Aging lists confusion, poor judgment, and difficulty speaking or understanding among the common signs of dementia.2 In a crowded dining room, a person living with dementia may have more trouble following a conversation, finding her seat, or asking for help. If your mother grows agitated in busy places and calms down in quiet ones, a smaller home with fewer people may help her stay calm through more of the day.

4. She needs consistent caregivers

A person living with dementia often finds it easier to recognize and accept help from people she sees every day. In a small home, a resident sees a handful of caregivers rather than dozens, and those caregivers learn what she likes, what upsets her, and which parts of her routine help her stay calm. Caregivers who know a resident’s habits can often notice early changes, such as a skipped meal or a restless night, and let the family know.

5. Wandering is not yet a major concern

A residential care home is more likely to work well when she has not left home without telling anyone, has not gotten lost, and has not been trying the front door to see if it opens. The Alzheimer’s Association reports that about six in ten people living with dementia will wander at least once, and that wandering can happen at any stage.5 Of the seven signs in this article, wandering is the one most likely to affect whether a particular home can safely meet a person’s needs. Wandering concerns should be discussed directly with the care provider to understand what supervision, monitoring, and safety measures are available.

6. Family members want frequent involvement

In a small home, families can usually visit, call, and get updates more easily. Visits are less formal, the same few caregivers answer your questions, and changes get reported faster because information passes through fewer people. If you plan to visit often and want to know your mother’s caregivers by name, a residential setting usually makes that easier. Our article on the emotional challenges of caring for an elderly parent covers the emotional side of staying involved in a parent’s care over time.

7. She responds well to personalized care

Some people eat better, rest better, and accept help more easily when care follows their personal habits instead of a fixed schedule. If your mother eats more when someone remembers she dislikes onions, or calms down faster when a caregiver turns on the radio for her, care built around her preferences can mean more finished meals and fewer upsetting moments. For many families, care built around a parent’s personal preferences is one of the main reasons they choose a residential care home.

What makes a residential care home different from memory care?

The primary difference between a residential care home and a memory care community is the level of supervision and specialized dementia support provided. A memory care community is built around dementia care, usually with a larger care team focused on memory loss and planned activities for residents with dementia throughout the day. A residential care home provides personal care and close attention from the same few caregivers in a house with a small number of residents. Both settings can serve someone living with dementia. Residential dementia care and memory care also differ in the number of residents and how structured the day is.

What you are comparing	Residential care home	Memory care community
Setting	A house with a small number of residents (12 or fewer in a Kansas Home Plus)	A larger building designed for dementia care, usually with many more residents
Care team	The same small group of caregivers each day	A larger care team with dementia-specific training; the caregivers on duty may change from shift to shift
Daily structure	A daily schedule built around each resident’s habits, such as when she likes to wake up and eat	Set group schedules with planned activities for people with memory loss
Supervision	Caregivers can see and hear residents easily in a small space	Supervision and daily programming designed for residents with advancing dementia
Best suited to	Early-stage and moderate dementia without significant wandering	Later-stage dementia with wandering, attempts to leave, or behaviors such as aggression
Where a residential care home is not the better choice	May not offer planned memory care activities, and may need to recommend a move if care needs increase beyond what the home can provide	More residents and more caregivers to get to know, which some families find less personal

If you are comparing both options, our pages on Home Plus senior care in Wichita and memory care in Wichita, Kansas explain what daily care looks like in each setting.

What should Kansas families know about Home Plus care?

Kansas state law includes a dementia care requirement for Home Plus caregivers that most families never read. The statute that defines a Home Plus states that personnel of any Home Plus who provide services for residents with dementia are required to take annual dementia care training.6 Because the requirement is part of the Home Plus definition in state law, a Home Plus in Kansas can serve residents living with dementia, and the caregivers who work with those residents must complete dementia care training every year.

Kansas does not issue a separate memory care license. A community that advertises memory care in Kansas holds one of the adult care home licenses defined in state law, such as a nursing home, assisted living, or Home Plus license. The words “memory care” describe the services a community offers, not the type of license it holds. Our guide to residential senior care and how Kansas licenses it explains each license type, including how a Home Plus compares with assisted living.

Kansas regulations also set specific limits on who a Home Plus may admit and keep. Under K.A.R. 26-42-200, a Home Plus may not admit or keep a resident with any of the following conditions unless the resident’s negotiated service agreement, the written agreement that lists the services the home will provide, includes enough services to meet the resident’s needs.7

• Incontinence, if the resident cannot or will not take part in managing it
• Immobility, if the resident is entirely dependent on another person to exit the building
• Any ongoing condition requiring two or more people to physically assist the resident
• Any ongoing skilled nursing intervention needed 24 hours a day
• Any behavioral symptom that goes beyond what the home can manage (the regulation’s wording is “exceeds manageability”)

A resident whose clinical condition requires physical restraints may not be admitted or retained at all.7

The behavioral symptom rule is the item on the list that matters most in dementia care. The regulation does not name a diagnosis or a stage of dementia. Instead, the rule allows a Home Plus to admit or keep a resident with difficult behavioral symptoms, such as agitation or repeated attempts to leave, when the home has agreed in writing to provide services that meet those needs.

If you are asking whether a specific residential care home can serve your parent, the negotiated service agreement shows which services the home has agreed to provide. Ask to see a blank copy before you tour. Ask how often the agreement is reviewed. Ask which changes in your parent’s health or behavior would lead the home to talk with you about a different setting. Ask when the care team last completed the dementia training Kansas requires each year. Any Home Plus should be able to answer that question.

How can families determine the right care setting?

Before you decide based on how a home felt during a tour, review these five areas.

• Assess cognitive symptoms. Write down changes in memory, confusion, and communication over the past six months, with dates, instead of relying only on the past few days.
• Review safety concerns. List each wandering episode, fall, kitchen mishap (such as a burner left on), and lapse in judgment separately. Safety concerns usually matter most when choosing a care setting.
• Evaluate social needs. Consider whether she is calmer in quiet settings or busy ones, and whether she still seeks out company.
• Consider caregiver stress. Note how caregiving is affecting your sleep, work, and health. How much care you can keep providing is part of this decision.
• Tour multiple care options. Visit both kinds of setting, a residential care home and a memory care community, before you settle on either.

Caregiver checklist: questions to ask yourself

The Family Caregiver Alliance points out that caring for a person with dementia is generally more demanding than caring for someone with a physical limitation alone, and encourages caregivers to recognize warning signs early.4 The five questions below can help you check how caregiving at home is working for both of you.

• Am I worried about her safety when I am not there?
• Is caregiving affecting my own health, sleep, or work?
• Is she becoming isolated, or losing contact with people outside the family?
• Have her care needs increased significantly in the past six months?
• Am I tired, short-tempered, or worn out on most days?

Answering yes to several of these questions does not mean you have failed as a caregiver. Several yes answers usually mean she now needs more help than your family can safely provide at home. Our guides to the signs of decline in a senior and to caring for an elderly parent with dementia explain what families often do next when care needs increase.

Not sure whether a smaller home would suit your loved one?

A conversation with us may be worthwhile if:

• Your loved one has a dementia diagnosis and you are not sure which type of care setting fits their needs.
• You want a smaller, quieter environment than a large community offers.
• You want to understand what Kansas licensing actually requires.
• You would like to talk the next step through with someone.

Families researching dementia care in Wichita, KS have both options nearby. Comfort and Love Senior Care Homes operates Home Plus assisted living and memory care homes in East Wichita, with 12 residents per home. Because the homes are small, the caregiver-to-resident ratio is higher than what larger communities typically maintain. Each resident has a large private bedroom with a private full bath. Meals are chef-prepared and home-cooked, the homes use purified air and water systems and non-toxic cleaners, and our care team is experienced in supporting residents living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia.

If a different setting would serve your loved one better, we will say so. For example, if your loved one needs skilled nursing care around the clock, or needs one-on-one supervision that a small home cannot safely provide, we will recommend a different setting rather than accept a resident we cannot care for well.

Call us at 316-260-4330, or contact us online to schedule a visit. Visit our residential assisted living home, meet the caregivers, and ask any questions you have about care, overnight supervision, or what happens if needs change.

Frequently asked questions

Can someone with Alzheimer’s live in a residential care home?

Yes. Many people living with Alzheimer’s live in residential care homes, particularly in the early and moderate stages, when routine, consistent caregivers, and close attention meet their needs. A residential care home may become less suitable when wandering, attempts to leave, or behaviors such as aggression require more support than the home can safely provide.

At what point in dementia does memory care become necessary?

Memory care most often becomes necessary in the middle or later stages of dementia, when a person needs more supervision and safety concerns such as wandering begin to appear. The Alzheimer’s Foundation of America, following the National Institute on Aging, describes Alzheimer’s in three stages: early or mild, middle or moderate, and late or severe.3 The stages overlap, and each person moves through them at a different pace. What your parent can safely do on an ordinary day, such as dressing, eating, and finding the way around the house, tells you more than the name of the stage.

What is a Home Plus residence?

A Home Plus is a licensed Kansas adult care home serving no more than 12 residents.6 It provides personal care and may provide supervised nursing care for residents who need help with daily activities. Because a Home Plus is limited to 12 residents, it is usually set in a house rather than a large community building.

Is a smaller residential setting better for dementia?

A smaller residential setting is often better for people with dementia who become confused or agitated in crowds, need the same caregivers every day, or do best with a steady daily schedule. A smaller setting is usually not the better choice when someone needs planned memory care activities throughout the day or skilled nursing care around the clock. If wandering is a concern, ask the home directly what supervision, monitoring, and safety measures it has in place.

What happens if dementia symptoms become more severe?

Whether a person can stay in a residential care home as dementia symptoms become more severe depends on whether the home can safely meet that person’s needs. In Kansas, a Home Plus must screen each resident’s ability to manage daily activities at or before admission, at least once a year, and after any significant change in condition. The home uses the screening results to decide which services go into the resident’s negotiated service agreement.9 A licensed nurse must assess any resident whose screening shows a need for health care services.9

If the negotiated service agreement includes enough services to meet the new needs, including support for behavioral symptoms, Kansas regulations allow the home to keep the resident. A resident whose condition requires physical restraints cannot stay in a Home Plus.7 If the home cannot meet the new needs, a move to a setting with more support, such as a memory care community or a nursing home, is usually the next step. Every Home Plus must have written admission, transfer, and discharge policies that protect each resident’s rights.7 Ask to see the home’s transfer and discharge policies before your parent moves in, and talk with your parent’s physician if symptoms change quickly.

Can someone transition later to memory care?

Yes. A person can move from a residential care home to memory care later, and families should plan for that possibility from the start. Ask any home you are considering which changes would lead the home to recommend a different setting, how much notice you would receive, and whether the home will help you find a new setting if care needs increase beyond what it can provide.

A note on this article

This article is intended as general information for families researching care options. It is not medical, legal, or financial advice, and licensing rules and care standards change over time. For guidance specific to your loved one’s situation, please consult your loved one’s physician, a qualified care professional, or the Kansas Department for Aging and Disability Services. All requirements reflect the sources cited below as of the publication date.

About the author

Raj Lal serves as Administrator of Comfort and Love Senior Care Homes in Wichita, Kansas. He is a Licensed Adult Care Home Administrator and a Licensed Practical Nurse, and holds certification as a Personal Approach to Care trainer specializing in dementia and memory care. His background spans skilled and long-term care, acute hospital care, geriatric home care, and psychiatric nursing. You can read more about the Comfort and Love care team and their credentials.

Pamela Hamel, RN, Clinical Director at Comfort and Love, reviewed this article for accuracy. Families in Sedgwick, Butler, and Harvey counties can also reach Central Plains Area Agency on Aging for free options counseling, which helps families compare local care choices, and other local resources.8

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